Hi all,
I am MOH for a friend's wedding and I'm totally blowing it. I went to all the dress fittings with my friend over the past year & bridesmaids dress fittings. But now, for the pre-wedding parties, I think I'm just messing it all up. One of the bridesmaids suggested an out of town trip for the bachelorette party & so we went with that. Then that bridesmaid didn't even go with us even though she knew in advance. I was stressing about the cost of going already so when she backed out, it just irked me. And the trip was fun, but it didn't go as well as I'd hoped.
Now she is hosting the shower because I waited too long to plan it. She's doing a great job and she's much better at delegating and getting in touch with the other bridesmaids.I'm disappointed in myself b/c I didn't host the shower so my question is are there other things that brides really appreciate that are not the usual expected ones? I've offered to help put together the favors & am working on the moh speech. What else can I do? thanks.