Our wedding in planned for September 7, 2013! I am so excited! We both originally wanted a small wedding. Which I still do. 100150 guests mainly our families! And 3 people in the wedding party for both sides. But he now what's all of his 1st cousins in the wedding. Which is 5 plus the best man which will be his dad. I wasn't wanting this big of a party. How should I handle this????