I've been doing a lot of research, and found this great website:
www.vacationist.com. Through it you can register, and they have another "sister site",
www.luxurylink.com. It's similar to other bidding websites, but for "nicer" packages and vacation venues. You can set up emails to come to you in the future for properties you are interested in. Some of the inns I've been looking into in the Sonoma area are on it, which is cool.
Even if you have your honeymoon plans, you can use this for future travel. I'd recommend watching the video, which is a couple of minutes, to make sure you understand how to bid, it's helpful.
Happy travels!
ETA: After a post on one of my XP's, I didn't realize you needed an invite. Weird, because if you go through the following website (as I did), you can just make up your own login and password:
http://www.travelandleisure.com/In the upper right there is a yellow link that says "Vacationist: Exclusive Hotels up to 60% off". Click on that and you should be able to get there.