Last night I had an arguement with my fiance's mother. While she has invited me over and had 9 months to get to know me the effort has been minimal to find out more about me. I went over to her house last night with the intend of talking through things and hopefulliy finding some common ground. In the first minutes of our conversation she states that the reason she is "waiting for us to fall apart". I'm stunned and hurt. I don't know how to proceed when she obviously is not supportive of her son's decision. I don't know where to go from here.