Two of my bridesmaids have been childhood friends, so naturally, I was happy when they said they would be my bridesmaids. One of my friends (friend 1) is dealing with some family issues right now, so I've been very understanding when she couldn't make dress shopping trips or the engagement party. Although, she won't answer any phone calls, or emails, even when I am just checking up on her to see how she is doing or to say hi. The other friend (Friend 2) does not have any problems going on in her life right now. She has been uncooperative about everything and has set up dress shopping trips and cancelled last minute. She is refusing to come the bachlorette party because "she doesn't know the other bridesmaids" when in fact, I have tried to set up times for when they could all meet and she blows me off. I understand that my bridesmaids aren't supposed to be at my beckon call but at the same time, I expect them to be able to still be my friend and care about how the wedding is going. Neither seems to have the slightest interest in either things anymore. I haven't seen either of them in months and have even sent an email saying that I don't hold any grudges for not coming to my engagement party. I don't know what to do with them anymore. I wanted to give them all a say in the dresses, but the 2 of them refuse to come shopping - they cancel every time. I am taking it personally that they have absolutely no interest in both the wedding and me as a friend. Should I kick them out of the bridal party? I'm at a loss at what to do. They have been very uncooperative to my MOH as well, as she is trying to set up the shower and bachelorette and neither seems to be of any help, even in simple things like telling what dates they are free.