I am getting married in 3 months, and one of my bridesmaids just informed me that she cannot participate in the wedding due to personal reasons. Naturally, I understand and I'm not angry with her. I am, however, very disappointed that she will not be there to participate in my special day.
My question is, I would like to replace her (for symmetry reasons and to include another friend) and didn't know how to go about the process of asking someone else. I don't want my friend to feel like she is being replaced and I don't want my new bridesmaid to feel like she is only doing this because someone backed out. How should I handle this?