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Some Destination Wedding Basics?

I am very recently engaged and have a couple of questions that I would like to get opinions on.  I am not going for a super-traditional wedding with the bells and whistles, I more want a "lets have fun and hang out, oh, and there will be a ceremony" feel, haha. 

The man and I always talked about getting married at Yellowstone National Park, and I think we are going to roll with it!  So, here are my questions (that I have so far!), keeping in mind most attendees who choose to come will be coming from NY:

-Is Memorial Day 2012 a good weekend?  Yellowstone is a vacation spot in itself, and many of my friends and family want to visit it anyway. 

-What meals/activities does the couple actually pay for?  I know paying for dinner after the ceremony is a given, but is there anything else we should keep in mind?  We are on a tight budget, but so is everyone else, and we want to maximize the fun.  Is it OK to set up group meals at restaraunts in the park and have guests pay for their meals (e.g., dinner the night before the ceremony, breakfast the next morning, etc., but not including the "reception" meal)?

Thanks for your opinions!  We are more go-with-the-flow kind of people, but I know some guests might expect different, so it's helpful to get opinions.  :)
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Re: Some Destination Wedding Basics?

  • Hi and welcome to the board!

    I have been to Yellowstone quite a few times and LOVE it!  I actually live in MT now :)

    I would say that Memorial day 2012 would be a good weekend, it may be kind of busy though.  So, if you want it more quiet and layed back I would pick a different weekend.  But, I think it would be fun to do it that weekend. 

    You are not required to pay for anything else besides the reception meal.  Lots of couples do a welcome dinner the night they arrive with the group, but you are not required to pay for this.  I would just make sure the say that they will be on there own paying for meals other than the reception. 

    This is a great board to get ideas and opinions, so you have found a great group of ladies :)
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  • Congratulations on getting engaged! Yellowstone sounds like a really fun idea. Traditionally, you pay for dinner after the ceremony. This can be as fancy or as laid back as you like. You are not required to pay for any other dinners, lunches or brunches. It is courteous to feed out of town guests the night before at the rehearsal dinner. I recommend checking out the other boards for ideas about budget and what etiquette requires you to pay for. Good luck planning! 
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  • hey congrats!   

    yellowstone sounds like a really fun idea!  

    Personally, i would never have my wedding on a holiday weekend, but I really have no good reasoning for that, and if you guys and your families are as laid back as you say, it could be a great time.   just remember, like PP said, that could be a really busy weekend.

    you are only required to pay for your "reception" dinner.    Planning group events in the days surrounding the wedding is something many brides do, and a great way to keep everyone together and having a good time.    Just be sure to make everyone aware ahead of time what the approximate cost is going to be, otherwise they will assume youre paying.   

    good luck!!!!
  • Welcome to the board! Congrats on the engagement!  Yellowstone is beautiful.  I think it would be ok to have it on the holiday weekend but as other people said the park may be busier than normal.

    I would recommend doing a picnic or bbq for when people arrive and you could keep the costs of that down by making a lot of it yourself. 

    We are going to be going to a restuarant the next morning and having the guests that want to meet us there come and enjoy some time together before they all leave. 
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