It is my understanding that the engagement party is given a few months after the engagement by the Bride's family, and the purpose if for both families to meet each other.
1. My dad - the FOB is not in the picture (or available) to throw the party or help plan
2. My mom is not wanting to dictate anything (wants to let the bride decide what she wants to do)
So, is it okay for the me (the bride) to plan the engagement party? I just want a lunch or dinner, something simple at my aunt's house with family and my FI.