My cousin is getting married this weekend, and we have to drive 2 hours to go to it, and then are staying over night. My mom called me to give me details about some things, and she reminded me to buy a wedding card. I asked why. She then informed me that just giving a gift for the shower doesn't count. You have to buy a shower gift, and then give money for a wedding gift. I nearly fell on the floor. I asked her how much and she said, if I could do it, between $100-200.
WHAT?
I thought that you either buy a shower gift or you give money! I didn't know you had to do both! I split the cost of her flatware with my mom so I already spent a good buck on her for her shower. Even my FI, who knows nothing about etiquette at all, said he knew that. With all the other weddings going on this summer, I will not have money for my own by the time it rolls around!
Is this really true? Do you really have to give to give, basically, TWO gifts???