I was just wondering how common it is to have a destination bachelorette/bachelor party. My fiance and I actually met on one (I was on a bachelorette and he was on a bachelor party in Vegas) and now we're thinking of doing one with out wedding parties. I'm a little worried about asking people to spend money on a trip, but at the same time most of our friends have responded positively to the idea. What has your experience been with these? Like? Dislike?