I almost never wear lip stick, lip gloss, or eye shadow. I am very fair (with yellow undertones), I have very light blue eyes, and red hair. I feel like every color of eye shadow and lipstick I try on just looks obtrusive on me. I usually just stick to plain eye liner and mascara. I would really like to wear eye shadow and lipstick on my wedding day but I don't know what to wear that won't make me look like a clown. Any suggestions??? Thanks!!