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June 2012 Weddings

I feel so behind!!!

So FI and I had our menu tasting last night and went over some things with our venue wedding coordinator. According to them, we're on schedule with things at the moment--HOWEVER I totally feel like I'm missing something or behind and I admit..I just made a post and freaked out seeing "4 months, 3 weeks and 6 days to go" on my siggy. My heart started to pound faster and holy crap popped into my mind!!! I feel like it was just yesterday that we got engaged and that was last July! 

Is anyone else feeling like they're behind or getting a bit antsy or am I just being a worry wart? 
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Re: I feel so behind!!!

  • I am kind of freaking out too. I don't even have that much to do. The time has really flown by!
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  • I'm starting to get more and more anxious about everything I still have to get done. This weekend is definitely DIY catch up for me. Just make a list with deadlines and stick to it!
  • Your not alone! I have alot done and alot left to do! Every now and then I freak out but when I have another check I feel so much better! One thing at a time, that's all you can do! :)
  • I am definitely starting to panic. We haven't gotten anything done since before Christmas. I don't have any of the design elements picked, HM booked, an officiant, a ceremony. No paper goods designed yet. Yeah full on panic right now.
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  • Thanks ladies. I just have so much going on aside from the wedding that I feel like I'm not totally submerged into the whole planning process. According to my venue and their checklist, everything is fine. I'm also following TK timeline and so far so good. I'm also the type that doesn't quite relax until something is completely finished so I suppose that's it! Guess it's my nerves and I'm glad I'm not alone! I knew this was the place to relate (FI is totally calm and making me feel like a Nervous Nellie) Laughing
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  • Tottally how I am right now as well! I freaked a little Monday when I hit the 5 month mark. I got a ton done last weekend, hopefully this weekend will be as productive and I can get a lot more checked off my to do list
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  • I am glad  that I am not alone, I feel like, I have a lot of things to do. I have to redo one of my bouquets, pick out what the guys will wear, pick out what my MOH will wear, find my ruuner, get parent gifts, and help my FI pick the gifts to his men. 
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  • I know how you feel. I know that my FI and I took care of a lot of stuff already and are pretty much smooth sailing our way to the wedding day. But like you I feel like I am forgetting something or something is going to happen. I do not know what it could possibly be, but it doesn't feel right.
    As far as panicing, I starting panicing on January 2 when the 5 month mark officialy hit. It feels like yesterday my FI was down on one knee proposing. Boy oh boy is time going to fly!
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  • Totally with you ladies. This week has been a total blur though... I've had wedding-related meetings every day after work--but as long as I feel like I'm accomplishing something, the panic stays away.  It's when I start sitting still that the 4 months, 3 weeks, etc. makes my heart beat fast!
  • Yep. Freaking out.  but it's a little good.  it's making me go full speed into the things I need to get done.  Only problem is the items FI said he would do.  He's not feeling the urgency that I am!   I might need to take them from him!
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  • Haha I totally can relate and feel much better now that I'm reading everyone's responses. WHEW! I understand FI not having the same sense of urgency and it irks me! 

    @Goodine: You mentioned gifts and I freaked again lol I need to get on that! 
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_feel-behind-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:a04926d5-b996-485b-94af-5c10037b892aPost:5dbdac50-7a26-41a7-8756-eb3ea321ac91">Re: I feel so behind!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I'm starting to get more and more anxious about everything I still have to get done. This weekend is definitely DIY catch up for me. Just make a list with deadlines and stick to it!
    Posted by kelsey+brandon[/QUOTE]

    This.  I'm on track with everything right now but I too feel like I'm missing something.
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  • I went out to dinner with one of my bridesmaids last night and she asked how wedding plans were going and I had no answer for her lol - I'm definitely slacking on the wedding planning front!
  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-club-boards_june-2012-weddings_feel-behind-1?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20Club%20BoardsForum:3ae4d68d-f10a-4dec-8810-da13c14a7b86Discussion:a04926d5-b996-485b-94af-5c10037b892aPost:8f6d1343-50a0-401d-a028-8937894cedc2">Re: I feel so behind!!!</a>:
    [QUOTE]I went out to dinner with one of my bridesmaids last night and she asked how wedding plans were going and I had no answer for her lol - I'm definitely slacking on the wedding planning front!
    Posted by Melissa603[/QUOTE]

    <div>I feel the same way everytime someone asks me that! I always answer with a "Uhhhh...good, I think?" </div>
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