I am newly engaged and don't even have a date set yet. I was thinking of going to a bridal show and some of my friends said it was a great idea because of discounts and others said it totally stressed them out and overwhelmed! What do you think? Should I go' or not go? I just want to get an idea of how much stuff cost so I can actually pick a date since I am paying for my own wedding! I need an experience bride to help me out! Now I am a little scared.