I have been at SO many christian weddings lately where people, either the 'officiant' or people making toasts have made comments about how 'great a mother she will be' or how they 'are excited for grandchildren' or 'next step is kids'. It really annoys me that people assume that the next step has to be kids....not that i never want kids, but i dont want thinking about future children as a part of my wedding day. Can you ask people without coming off as ornery to not say anything about a future of children? Is it really too much to ask that the focus be on the commitment Fi and i are making to EACHOTHER on our wedding instead of merely acknowledging that its now culturally acceptable to have children?
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