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Vent ughh but its our wedding ughh

Okay soooo tell me if I am wrong because I will accept If I am. We are basically paying for our wedding besides what family decided to chip in and pay. So my babe And I was watching four weddings and the topic of songs came up. At every wedding I been to this song was played because it is truly my fav song but my fi said ohhhh no it is inappropriate. Okay it Maybe but Idc it's my wedding why can't I play what I want . I compromised and said I want the clean version ughhh damn. Oh the song ..... I'm the sh*t by DJ class. YouTube it

Re: Vent ughh but its our wedding ughh

  • Ok I'm not gon' lie I like it cuz the beat is bangin'! BUT even with the I'm the ish version it might not sit well with the older, older set.  So look at your demographics, old vs new and try to figure out how it would go over with them.  I mean do you plan on having it played during the party portion or as part of your intro?  Cuz I think that would make a difference too.  In the party set, I doubt anyone would really notice if you used the clean version but during the first half of the wedding I definitely think you would get some looks. Know what I mean?
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  • edited July 2012
    Yea I guess your right and it would be played more towards the end...when all the older people leave but I loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it and everyone on my side expects it to be played
  • Ayyeeee!!! dancing in the car I say go for it. But yes probably do the clean version. I plan on doing a "20 min. workout" with booty music lol ok I mean like luke and those 90s music rump shaking songs but the clean versions. I say if you paying for it do what you please but be mindful/respectful of the elderly.
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  • edited July 2012
    LOL ughhhh I just wish we can just make the older ones leave at a certain time..... I want to enjoy myself ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh compromise lol but I just loveeeeeeeeeeeeeeee it...... I am a booty shaking kind of woman lol but I will be respectful
  • Clean version.
    But...*My opinion is HUGELY biased because I'm a dancer and when I'm in the "zone"...um...oh well sorry to everyone else* so I'm feeling you on that. But play it at the end right before people "want" to leave...they hear that drop and have to keep the party going! ;)
  • I will have the DJ play it during the end ughhhhh I just wish people would have just let us elope then I could have danced somewhere to my song lol
  • by the end everyone will be tipsy and feelin it...do it. but the clean version!


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    [QUOTE]I will have the DJ play it during the end ughhhhh I just wish people would have just let us elope then I could have danced somewhere to my song lol
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  • living B'More they play that song all the time and i love it
    yeah i would do the clean version lol 
    *now the song is in my head* lol 

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    [QUOTE]I need to move to bmore
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    </div><div>its a b'more club song lol </div><div>i didnt know the name but when i heard the first word i knew the song....</div><div> i am on the floor getting it in on club music...</div><div>i am a house head... so i make do with bmore club music.... 

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