Nope. Nope, ya can't.
Not unless you want to end the friendship and her transgression is such that you would rather never be friends with her again.
Even if she isn't interested in dress shoppinig or helping you with crafts. Even if she doesn't get along with the 'maids and said she doesn't like what you're serving at the reception. Even if she doesn't return your texts in a timely manner. Even if her voice is annoying and she refuses to throw a shower. Even if she refuses to TAKE a shower.
Just. No.