Ok so FI and I are allowing kids at the wedding since we are having a DW and both our families will have children. Our venue has a room adjoining the main ballroom where we can house the 40 children(including the older cousins) with 3 babysitters , movies , etc. I don't want any children in the main reception room and as such I want to specify that only children 3 and up who are potty trained will be allowed. Is this a reasonable age? I think only 3 families will have newborns - 2 year olds and I will provide them numbers for sitters.
Is this reasonable? If you are or were a parent would that be reasonable?