My FI apparently is shocked and hurt by the idea of me not taking his last name. I didn't think it would be such a huge deal, but he seemed geniuenly upset. I told him my reasoning behind it and he said he understood but that he wanted me to really think about it before making my decision. I don't think I have to think about it. I haven't wanted to change my last name since I was 15 and my step dad wanted to adopt me. This isn't an idea that is going to change anytime soon and it's not a personal thing. I like my name the way it is and in terms of changing my name to my FI's, I just don't like where the tradition came from and I don't believe in it. So I guess what I'm asking is what I should do. I don't want a hurt FI, but I'm not sure if this is something I should compromise on. It's my name after all. Am I wrong here?