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Running out of Mormon curse words... FMIL rant...XP from Moms and Maids

"Dang", "fetch", "heck" and "scrud" are not doing me justice here.  I am about to return to my Irish Catholic roots and let loose a string of profanity that would make my sailor father blush...then (try to) ground me for a year. 

Last night, FI came home, looking angry, followed by FMIL who gave me a stony glare.  She maintains that their drive home was the first she had heard about my shower this coming weekend in WV.  Not true, we have been talking about it for a month.  I can't help it if everything I say to that woman goes in one ear and out the other. 

Our plan was to leave on Thursday night, pick up my MOH and then crash at my mommy's and relax Friday before the shower.  FMIL wants us to leave Friday night because it "would be a real hardship" for FSIL not to have a car on Friday.   She doesn't have a job.  She's not looking for a job, because she's moving to the Mormon Corridor in a month.  She can deal without a car for a day. 

FMIL does crap like this EVERY TIME FI and I plan a trip home to see my family.  For once, I would like to spend more time with them than a millisecond.  I don't get what her deal is.  Can't she understand, from a mother's perspective, I miss my mom? 

~Kate
December 18, 2010!!! Never thought I would be a winter bride; just hoping we don't get snowed in until AFTER the wedding!

Re: Running out of Mormon curse words... FMIL rant...XP from Moms and Maids

  • Sue-n-KevinSue-n-Kevin member
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    edited December 2011
    Glad you got the rant over! Jeez Louise is always good for cursing too!

    Hope you feel better.
  • ms nobodyms nobody member
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    edited December 2011
    yea those irish catholics, totally profane 100% of the time....
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  • edited December 2011
    Offensive stereotypes aside, I'm confused as to how you driving home affects whether your FSIL has a car? Am I to understand you and FI live at his parent's home?
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  • emarston1emarston1 member
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    edited December 2011
    Are you using their car for the drive?  If so, I can understand why she should get a say as to when you leave.  If you are using FI or your car, then yes, you should be able to leave whenever you want.
  • Julz629Julz629 member
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    edited December 2011
    I don't want to sound like a jerk, but I think you're letting the wedding stress get to you.  From this post, as well as previous posts, it also sounds like you don't get along with your future in-laws and it shouldn't be this stressful.  If there are that many issues, let your FI deal with it -- they are his family.

    Simply tell FMIL, "we are planning to leave on Thursday evening if you would like to drive with us.  Otherwise, we'll assume you're planning to drive there yourself."

    Also, did you send her an invite for the shower?  It sounds like you didn't.
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