i sent my save the dates out in january. Yesterday my fiance got a call from his mother, asking why i didnt send one to one of her close friends. Im pretty sure I sent them one, I wouldnt just leave them out if they were on the list. That just pisses me off, Im not like that.
Re: whoops!
STDs aren't really required so as long as her friend's invitations arrive they/your FMIL shouldn't really be offended.
I'm really scared that our STD's are going to get lost as well. I put a few in the drop box and re-opened it to find that a few of them had stuck themselves to the box! I committed a whole lot of criminal offences trying to un-stick them.
I just made it into the post office before they closed and the famous rude lady was there. She said with a huge attitude, "that's what the drop box is for and why are they in different directions. And they're sticking together!" It took me all I had not to punch her. She didn't even walk them over to the bin. She put them on a shelf. I tell ya, if my guests don't get them, I'm going bring my brawling bride butt right over there and show her a piece of my mind!