I've been debating back and forth on who should I choose to be my MOH! I am having a wedding in Los Angeles our home town. I do not have a best friend however, I do have a few close friends, I only have one sister who will be only 19 when the wedding comes. ( she is away at school but comes home often). When i first started wedding planning by default of her being my only sister I wanted her to be my MOH. She is very mature for her age dont get me wrong, But I am starting to feel like she isn't ready for that type of responsibilty. On the other hand my really close friend has stepped up after me asking her to be a bridesmaid to help me with planning and ideas. Now I am wondering she I ask her to be my MOH? we've been friends since 7th grade. if I do this I still want me sister to feel special so I was thinking of letting her wear a different dress with a different color. what would you do?
*I dont expect anyone to help me plan my wedding I just feel like my friend will be going above and beyond. she lives two hours from me and i am she will be making multiple trips back and forth and also flying out for the wedding! I just want her to know I dont take her for granted.