so i just talked to our venue coordinator and im in tears. we have almost 400 people and i dont think my FIL's are going to pay for everything. i have cut everywhere and im freaking out because i cant expect my parents to fork out 10,000 on a wedding and 4000 on the food and reception venue alone. We had it worked out so we would pay for all the meat and processing fees for one of my FI's stears that we were going to have for the food. but now our venue isnt letting us provide the meat we have to sell it to the locker and then they have to buy it from them. im so frustrated and really upset. sorry i just really needed to vent about this.