Hello! I've been using The Knot to help me plan for my August wedding. Didn't realize there were message boards, I'm happy to find them. I've obviously never been married before and haven't been to a wedding for 10 years, so I'm quite ignorant!
I apologize in advance if I am asking questions that have already been asked! It's always nice to get first-hand advice specific to your own situation
Just a tiny bit of background, as this is my very first post: We're having a small outdoor wedding; there are 66 people invited; there are 6 people in the WP including the MOH and Bman. Three boys, three girls, plus two sweet little girl FG's and our adorable RB.
For the WP, my brother, my best guy friend, and FI's close friend are standing up for my fiance. Now, this doesn't seem right to me, to have my best friend up there with my fiance. Shouldn't he be on my side with the girls? Also, we're having a few friends as guests and I think they might not agree with my FI having a guy up there he has only met once, instead of one of his life-long friends. Again, that doesn't make sense to me. I doubt they'd say anything, but still. I respect my FI's friends.
Now, if we move my buddy over to my side, can we "add" a GM? Is it too late? Would that be horribly rude? I've spoken to my friend already about possibly being moved to my side, which he's fine with and actually prefers, but really doesn't care, he's simply happy to be up there with us. We haven't asked our other friend yet if he wants to be in the WP on FI's side.
So, how should all this work?