So one of my bridesmaids is the mother of two girls one of them is my Godchild. I opted out of having them in the wedding because my party is not that big and my fiance has a daughter that is 6. She can't wait to be the "flower girl" so I thought that would be a special role just for her. Well a couple of weeks ago my BM showed me the dresses that she was having her girls wear to the wedding. I was shocked because the dresses are ivory. My immediate response was, "why do you have them wearing this? They're not in the wedding." Well she just brushed it off and said well I thought it would be cute because its a wedding. I know that was my opportunity to say well I don't want that but I didn't and now I'm really feeling like maybe I should say something. Or is it even that big of a deal? What do you guys think?