Hello, I just got engaged for the 3rd time, they say the 3rd time is a charm and I have finally found my prince. I guess with age comes wisdom. I want a sizable wedding but I'm not sure if that would be the proper thing to do. We are from the South and a rather small town. Oh, by the way I have an 18 & 15 year old both boys, and he has a 12 year old daughter. It is very important to me to incorporate our children in anything we do!!!! I had the princess wedding when I married my children's father, and at 40 almost 41 I'm not sure if that is what I want to do. I know I want outside, we are both very laid back and as such I want that to come through when we say our vows. Any suggestions on etiquette what is right and what is wrong?