Okay so I am the MOH for my cousins wedding, she has went about everything as cheap as possible, with homemade invitations 4 invites on one piece of paper.She is not having food or liqour at the wedding nor is she having it at her bridal shower. The deal is she wants ner bachelorette party at a motel with liqour and food and the theme to be a lingerie party and she wants a lot of people there and I am suppose to pay for everything.Is it wrong of me not to want to do that? What should I do? Does anybody have any suggestions as to what else we could do?