I had my hair trial last week and was not liking how it was done and they basically ran out of time and asked me to come back for a complementary trial to get it right. So, I had that tonight with a different hairdresser (their suggestion). She did it a way I wasn't liking (and to be clear, I brought pictures each time and described what I wanted) and I just wanted to cry. I told her it wasn't what I wanted and with the help of another, they started down the "right" path. It looked nice & alright, but I wasn't wowed. When I left we talked about how that style would be the base, but what little changes would be made. I am at the point where I almost feel like I could do it better myself. It looked nice and all, but this is my WEDDING day and I want to say "wow." Both times I went home to my FI who said he liked my hair both times, but that didn't make me feel better. I feel like some of the girls who posted thoughts about re-thinking their dresses, but it's my hair! My "day-of" hair is free since I've paid for the trial, so I wouldn't save by doing it myself. Part of me says to just go do it and be vocal and demanding to ensure it's done right rather than sit back and think it will come together if it doesn't appear to be.
