We invited 157, and will have 119!!! My Fi's side has 72 out of 74 of their guests coming! Crazy success rate! That leaves my side with 25 fewer guests than his side, makes me sad. I blame it on my brother's wedding in March. Even though I was engaged and date picked first, he was married first and a lot of our family and friends feel they were just at a wedding for my famly and caught up. I think it's a little annoying for my parents to pay for 25 more people to come on FI's side since they are footing the entire bill, but when you send out rsvp's there really isn't any way to know who will and won't come.
Now the fun part...table assignments!!!! :-(