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Today's poll: young or assh*le?

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Sometimes he just doesn't get it...

Maybe I'm over reacting but I'm soooo extremely stressed right now and I just need to vent. I love my hubby. He completes me but sometimes he can be so completely insensitive (but I don't think he thinks he is because he loves to tease).

Since we started dating he mentioned that he liked long hair. I haven't had long hair in a long time so I decided to try to grow it out. I made it through the wedding and finally got it trimmed (less than an inch) 2 months ago. Yesterday I'm out with my mom shopping and I mention I think I might get a hair cut. My mom doesn't like my hair long so she was all for it. So I walked into a salon and got 2-3 inches cut off. My hubby is making such a big deal about it that it is making me super self conscious. He said he feels like before I was growing it out for him and if I cut it off it must mean something. I told him it meant that I needed a haircut and he was being ridiculous. He said of course I am beautiful but I was more beautiful before I cut my hair.

Ugh...He knows I get super self conscious about how I look (I dealt with an eating disorder for years and now have been 4 years healthy!!!). It just frustrates me that he would make such a comment.

http://community.thenest.com/cs/ks/forums/thread/50941829.aspx

Poll:  Is this guy hella young, or is he an assh*le?  Give me your best guess.
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  • Cant_wait!Cant_wait!
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    edited December 2011
    "hella"? Who are you?
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    I would guess both, but mostly asshole. This is making me bubble with rage, because I've always thought that a guy dictating a woman's hairstyle was the ultimate in controlling behavior.
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  • hmonkeyhmonkey member
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    edited December 2011

    a to the hole.

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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_todays-poll-young-asshle?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:51176099-acd5-4fb6-a184-bcca304a9f11Post:dfca24af-612a-47a3-bacc-e0424fb31683">Re: Today's poll: young or assh*le?</a>:
    [QUOTE]"hella"? Who are you?
    Posted by Cant_wait![/QUOTE]


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  • +candi++candi+ member
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    edited December 2011
    Assshole.
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  • PMeg819PMeg819 member
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    edited December 2011
    Young and a assh*le.
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  • InksWellInksWell member
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    edited December 2011
    Young. Because I think she sounds really young.  But he's an a**hole for thinking he has any say, and immature for getting all sensitive "if you grew it out for me, then cutting it must mean something" It means she had split ends.

    Good luck in that whole houseful of insecurity, you crazy kids.
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  • *Barbie**Barbie* member
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    edited December 2011
    he's an assh*ole.

    DK likes long hair, but never takes it as a personal affont when I chop it off and donate it. (I've done it 4 times in the almost 7 years we've been together.)
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  • AuntFloAuntFlo member
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    edited December 2011
    Both.

    DH loves short, stacked trashy haircuts (think Kate from J&K+8) but there is no way in he|| that I'd get my hair cut like that!
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  • **O-Face****O-Face** member
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    edited December 2011
    ahole all the way!
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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Asshole, no matter if he's young or not.
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  • loveshine1loveshine1 member
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    edited December 2011
    He sounds young and like a douche. Not to mention, totally insecure.
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    I can't BELIEVE that anyone is defending this douchecanoe.  Unbelievable.
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  • zsazsa-stlzsazsa-stl member
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    edited December 2011

    complete a$$hole

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  • mrsconn23mrsconn23 member
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    edited December 2011
    Oh and the "he completes me" squicks me out. 

    Who says that, besides Jerry Maguire?  And let's face it, Jerry wasn't all that great of a catch.
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  • TheDuckisTheDuckis member
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    edited December 2011
    Side question: does Tambcat annoy the sht out of anyone else?
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  • ReturnOfKuusReturnOfKuus member
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    edited December 2011
    Nooooo!  I love Tambcat!
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  • Cant_wait!Cant_wait!
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_todays-poll-young-asshle?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:51176099-acd5-4fb6-a184-bcca304a9f11Post:fc148f34-8662-4f13-8cfc-1d23896d9b20">Re: Today's poll: young or assh*le?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Side question: does Tambcat annoy the sht out of anyone else?
    Posted by TheDuckis[/QUOTE]
    lol.
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  • DG1DG1 member
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    edited December 2011

    Ahole.

    I'm another whose H prefers long hair, but he'd certainly never say he thought I was more beautiful before I cut my hair or think of a short haircut as a personal affront.  WTF.

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  • baconsmombaconsmom member
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    edited December 2011
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/special-topic-wedding-boards_wedding-woes_todays-poll-young-asshle?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Special%20Topic%20Wedding%20BoardsForum:47Discussion:51176099-acd5-4fb6-a184-bcca304a9f11Post:d4885ae1-c7c8-4db9-bc39-4e7634fb6dd0">Re: Today's poll: young or assh*le?</a>:
    [QUOTE]Ahole. I'm another whose H prefers long hair, but he'd certainly never say he thought I was more beautiful before I cut my hair or think of a short haircut as a personal affront.  WTF.
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    This. H loves long hair, but it doesn't look good on me. He'd rather I feel beautiful than that I conform to some specific like of his. 
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  • Paulo's Menina BelaPaulo's Menina Bela member
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    edited December 2011
    Both.

    H likes bobs. He calls it the mushroom cut. I style my hair anyway I like.
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  • specialk84specialk84
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    edited December 2011
    My hair is currently just past my shoulders.  FI told me he likes it when it's long, but he understands the ridiculous amount of time and effort it takes to keep me from looking like Alice from Dilbert.  A year or so ago, I cut off 18 inches without giving him any warning.  His response?  "You look beautiful."

    The dude from the other post is an asshat.
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  • dharmabunnydharmabunny member
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    edited December 2011
    Bungholios come in all ages.

    That 'he completes me' made me retch. 
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