To be completely honest. I hate my dad with a passion. I could really care less if he walks me down the aisle. He has never been supportive and always puts me down. I literally saved as much money as I could so I could move out when I was out of college so I wouldn't have to deal with him anymore. To be honest I don't know why my parents are together and I don't know why my mom puts up with him. He is very verbally abusive. He is giving us some money for the wedding but FI's parents are matching his contribution. I really don't want to do the father/daughter dance but I know FI wants to do the mother/son dance...what do I do?