My husband-to-be and I decided to split the wedding traditionally. My family would pay for the wedding (a whopping $13000) and his parents, who are divorced, would pick up the tab for our honeymoon. We plan on going to Greece and his father, who is actually the only one who is paying for the honeymoon is fine with it. Now his mother, who hates my guts and isn't paying for the wedding is pitching a fit about our honeymoon destination. She is claiming the groom does not have to pay for the honeymoon and that we are being ridiculous in wanting to go out of the country. I feel like saying, "if this is how it is going to be I'll take your half of the wedding, $6500, and we can go half and half from here on out?"