I am having the dilemma of who to have as my maid of honor. It's tough to choose between my older sister and my fiance's sister, and my two best friends/ I don't want anyone to get their feelings hurt because I know there will be drama and I really don't want stress and drama for my wedding.
I want to have a maid of honor and 3 bridesmaids. My sister, futue sister-in-law, my 2 best friends. I have thought about choosing a best friend so the sisters don't get hurt.
My sister is very selfish and kind of against me EVER getting married because she had a bad divorce. Im affraid that she will be negative and not be there for me even as a bridesmaid.
My sister-in-law is very sweet and kind, but I don't want my wedding to come between us. I'm not her maid of honor for her wedding, but I have done everything that the maid of honor does. Invitations, reservations, party plans, seating arangements, etc. I know she will be supportive but I dont know if it will cause tension.
My one best friend that we used to be inseperable has become very jealous that I am growing up and have a house and everything. She is also very selfish about handling things. I am affraid that she wont be able to handle the tasks and be there for me, due to jealousy and us growing apart.
My bestfriend from high school however is very helpful in planning things, has been there for me through the drama with the other best friend and sister. She will be very helpful and supportive like she always has.
Ultimately I am considering my best friend from high school because I can trust her to be there for me and I know she will enjoy it. My sisters will have to deal with it, and my other best friend will
Input please!!!!