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Just Engaged and Proposals

Blindsided with a proposal!

This story should be prefaced by sharing the fact that since I have known Matt the mention of a wedding or marriage was enough to start him sweating, stuttering and border-line panic attack.  Matt knew I had always said I wanted my proposal to be a surpise so apparently once he had decided he was going to propose he figured it would be best to keep up the charade of being absolutely terrified of marriage and let me tell you he did a great job.  I can 100% assure everyone that I had no idea it was coming.
 
So onto the proposal story... 
We were at the beginning of a vacation that included visiting Phoenix, Bryce Canyon, Zion and Death Valley.  We are both photographers so it was a trip geared around taking pictures.   We were staying the night at an awesome bed and Breakfast near Bryce.  Woke up bright and early this morning to photograph sunrise at Inspiration Point Bryce Canyon. The sunrise was amazing (took this pic there)



We were running all around taking photos and had finally stopped at the top viewing area, took a few photos, set up my tri-pod to take a photo of us.  This photo:



 Right after this photo he was packing his camera up as I babbled on to him about the photo we just took and about the camera he was using (apparently he was taking the ring out of the camera bag), he gets up walks over to still completely clueless me who is still babbling on about stupid stuff and he gets down on one knee. I barely remember what he said- but he cried.  My response was absolute shock and my very typical response when Im shocked is  "SHUT UP!" and jaw dropped. Once I got over the shock of course I said yes. :)  

This was right after- so excited and clueless that I had the ring on the wrong hand hahaha



The ring is perfect as it was his grandmothers ring and she had given it to him over a year ago saying she knew I was the one (which again I had no idea he even had a ring) which makes it all the more special.  




Its was an incredible day and I couldn't be happier that such an amazing person wants to spend the rest of his life with me.  The best part is it came at a time where I had honestly gotten to a point where "getting married" was not such a defining point in our relationship anymore and I realized that what we had was great and while I was ready whenever he was- it was ok if he still needed more time (he comes from a divorced family and that really was always a concern of his).   In my mind I was thinking he would be proposing in another year or so..so truly when I say I was blindsided I was truly so shocked.  ack I love him
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Re: Blindsided with a proposal!

  • How sweet! Your story sounds so much like mine...getting blindsided by a sunrise proposal from someone who by all accounts doesn't want to get married.  :)

    My honey took me up to Mt. Washburn in Yellowstone at sunrise and proposed.  I never saw it coming, since he always insisted that he had "been there, done that" (he's divorced, it was an ugly long battle) and wasn't going to do it again.  I guess I was wrong to believe that. :)

    Congratulations!  And your ring is beautiful!
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  • Congratulations!!! Mine was blindsided too but it was amazing!!!
  • Congratulations.  I love your ring.
  • Congrats!! What a sweet story! Beautiful ring!!
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  • Thanks!!  We are so excited :)
  • Congratulations!  Your story is perfect!
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  • Congratulations!!! My fiance went to extra lengths to make sure I wasn't expecting anything....it was perfect :) So happy for you!!
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  • That's so great he was able to surprise you! Congratulations!
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  • In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_blindsided-with-a-proposal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:683Discussion:2c828b45-bf5d-4ccc-b6e5-68b2dd1a9223Post:de2a888c-9494-40df-9f8e-6983ee668339">Blindsided with a proposal!</a>:
    [QUOTE]The ring is perfect as it was his grandmothers ring and she had given it to him over a year ago saying she knew I was the one
    Posted by GrayceandDanger[/QUOTE]
    That made me cry.  I love his grandma and I love that you love her ring.
  • edited March 2012
    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/wedding-boards_just-engaged-proposals_blindsided-with-a-proposal?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Wedding%20BoardsForum:683Discussion:2c828b45-bf5d-4ccc-b6e5-68b2dd1a9223Post:86206ccf-a1ba-468e-899f-94008607bd96">Re: Blindsided with a proposal!</a>:
    [QUOTE]In Response to Blindsided with a proposal! : That made me cry.  I love his grandma and I love that you love her ring.
    Posted by ceh789[/QUOTE]
      I love that I love it too! <img src="http://cdn.cl9.vanillaforums.com/downloaded/ver1.0/content/scripts/tinymce/plugins/emotions/images/smiley-laughing.gif" border="0" alt="Laughing" title="Laughing" />  He was so nervous because he wasnt sure if I would like it bc we had never even looked at rings together.  But part of what he said when he proposed was that it was completely up to me what I did with the ring and that he had almost purchased me a new one but really wanted to propose with his grandmothers and than I could decide what I wanted to do.  I'm so glad he did because I just love it all the more because of the histroy.  <div>
    </div><div> It makes me so happy to be so accepted by his family.  We just went visit his grandmother yesterday and I framed some of our engagement photos for her that included nice pictures of the ring.  She's so sweet and was so excited for us.  <div><div><div>
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  • So sweet! Your ring is beautiful! Congratulations!
  • edited April 2012
    My proposal has become all the more meaningful. 

    This month we lost his grandmother who gave him the ring for me.  She was able to see the ring on my finger, talk about our wedding with us, talk about dresses and she was just so thrilled.  My fiance had been holding onto the ring for almost 2 years so we are so thankful it worked out that she was alive to know he proposed.  We're sad she won't make the wedding but know that her quality of life was no longer great.

    Also the trip that he proposed on started with us visiting my grandmother in Arizona.  It was the first time I had seen her in over 5 years, the first time for my fiance to even get to meet her.  My fiance had bent over backwards to make sure we fit in a visit to her into our trip (we actually flew into phoenix one day, spent 2 days with her and than flew to Vegas to start our vacation road trip.  

    Within 2 weeks of our trip my grandmother was diagnosed with breast cancer that spread to her bones. She passed away this week.  It was incredible that I got to see her and she got to meet him. 

    It's been such a sad month both of us losing our grandmothers but we both feel very thankful at the same time.
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