So my MOH has been my best friend since we worked together at our first job, we were 15 yrs old. She lives in another state (about 3 hr drive) and so far has not been very helpful.
The wedding is in March, and being the control freak that I am, I am starting to wonder wether I should say something? She hasn't once asked me about a bridal shower, and I've had arguments (half joking half not) about the hens party - ie: I don't want a stripper and she does etc.
I'm worried that if I don't say something, she isn't going to pull her finger out and get organising! Am I being too controlling? The thought of missing all the things that come with your wedding is really upsetting.