Hi! I have a question on throwing a bridal shower for my cousin, "C". C is getting married in August, so I though since she was a big help at my wedding, it would be nice to throw her a shower for hers.
I called her mother and left a message asking for a date in June/July that works for her, and any people she would like me to invite. I get a text message back an hour later from C's mother saying "Don't expect any money from me, I don't think throwing C a shower is a good idea, her sister and bridesmaids will take care of it"
Um, wth? I'm confused. I'm okay with financing the shower, and I just wanted to be kind. I talked to C before calling her mother, and she was thrilled about a shower.
Should I go ahead and throw C a shower, or just forget it?
CN: Bride's mom nixes my shower offer, go ahead with it anyways?