After a conversation with my fiance about how excited I was that my sister had Christmas night off--she's a dr--and that she'd be able to have dinner with us at my parents, he sends me a text message saying he wants to have dinner with his parents and suggests I come with him. Needless to say, I'm a little upset. It's my last Christmas at home with my parents and I was really looking forward to spending it with them, even more so after finding out my sister and brother-in-law would be there.
We'll be spending Christmas Eve with his side of the family. There really wouldn't be any other time on Christmas Day to see his parents because he works until 4pm. I feel like I'm being selfish and I really don't want to argue with him over this, but I can't help feeling upset. How do other people decide which family to spend the holidays with??