And, here is is! I'm going to try to narrow it down because I have a ton of pics. I'd love you guys' opinions, I will say that I started out wanting something a little more vintage-y with minimal bling and ended up going pretty poofy princess. And I loooooooved it. I don't think I'm going to have that "cry when I see it" moment with my dress, but there are a couple of serious contenders. Also, most of the pics include my face because I don't have paint or photoshop and am lazy, so I apologize for some truly hilarious expressions.
Number 1: Alfred Angelo. This is one of the top 3. It can be made with a corset back and I can add more train.

Number 2: Also AA and a top contender. Can't come with a corset, but really pretty. I will say that I had the best consultant of the day at AA, she was totally on it and pulled fantastic dresses.
These next two are from a local shop and are one is Maggie Sottero and one is Sottero/Badgely. I don't have style numbers because the shop gives them their own numbers and couldn't give me style numbers.
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And last, but certainly not least, this Mori Lee rounds out the top three. It's the last one I tried on at the first shop, and the first one that made me really light up.