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Proposal: Can't decide on a date...

Hey everyone,

I'm about to propose and have two dates in mind, but there are so many variables floating around out there and I can't decide. Here are the two I have in mind and my overall plan.
The plan - we live in Minneapolis and she lives by the Walker Art Museum which has a beautiful sculpture garden, it was one of the first dates we ever went on, so I decided we could easily take a stroll through the garden (on our way to nice dinner plans) and nothing would be awry. As we walk through their beautiful garden area, I'd plop down and pop the question! We'd follow this with dinner, drinks, and maybe meet up with any friends in the area that want to share the celebration.
  • July 3 (My birthday)
  • Pros - she'll be completely caught off guard, we already have fancy dinner plans, fireworks can be arranged, we see her family the next day
  • Cons - it might upstage her birthday gift, her cousin gets married July 28 (she's a bit of a bridezilla and I don't want any resentment)
  • August 4 (weekend after cousin's wedding)
  • Pros - not upstaging anyone/anything, much simpler weekend
  • Cons - No fireworks, nice dinner plans might seem fishy

So, here we are... what do you guys think?

Re: Proposal: Can't decide on a date...

  • July 3rd... Do it sooner :)
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  • I agree, do it sooner :)
    Don't make the poor girl wait :)

    Also, my FI proposed days before his grandfathers birthday, 3 weeks before I graduated college, 4 weeks before my birthday, and 2 weeks after Valentine's Day. The best part was getting to celebrate them all at the same time. And I got to see SO much family right after and show off my ring :D
  • July 3rd. In away if you're asking on your birthday thats romatic because you're asking her for one of the greatest gifts she can give you a lifetime together. I think that is beautiful. Congratulations in advance :)
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  • July 3rd! Do NOT make that poor girl wait! Take it from a girl who is waiting ever so impatiently! :) Congratulations!

  • I would do it on the 3rd, her cousin be dammed. Everyone gets engaged when it's right for the two people involved. Her cousin gets one day her wedding is almost a month after.
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  • July 3rd...not just because it sounds like a great day, but it's also mine and my husband's anniversary, so it's a good day:)
  • Agreed, July 3rd!!! Don't worry about anything but having an amazing night with her and celebrating your commitment! Fireworks are definitely in order! Congratulations.



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