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Jackief11Jackief11
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Do yall know the requirements for veils? I know that traditionally something covers the shoulders, but I really don't want one lol Anyone heard anything about this?
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    mica178mica178 member
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    edited December 2011
    It's all parish-dependent.  I'd talk with either your priest or the church coordinator to find out what it the expectation at your church.
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    bibliophile2010bibliophile2010 member
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    I agree that your best bet is checking with your parish/priest/coordinator.

    I have never heard of veils being required. I have heard of shoulders needing to be covered and people getting away with using veils for that purpose, but there are other options, like boleros, if you have to cover your shoulders and do not want to wear a veil.
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    Ditto pp. Definitely check with your priest/deacon/wedding coordinator.

    Our church did not have any requirements for veils or dresses. However, I have heard of some churches requiring the brides shoulders to be covered with with the dress or the veil.
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    Kate504Kate504 member
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    I asked our priest about requirements and he told me to use my best judement. Other churches here tell you you have to wear sleeves and have certain other restrictions.
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    mica178mica178 member
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    If in doubt, you could bring in a picture of your intended dress to your priest and ask his opinion if it's appropriate.
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    Calypso1977Calypso1977 member
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    ive never heard of the veil being an issue.   as far as i know, you can go long or short.  its the dresses that usually are an issue - strapless in particular are deemed to be immodest by many churches/priests as well as any dress that shows an inappropriate amount of cleavage.  some gals have been told that they can wear strapless as long as the veil covers the shoulders.  some have been told no strapless period.

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    newlyseliskinewlyseliski member
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    Yep, probably really depends on the parish!  Unfortunately it's really hard to find wedding dresses that aren't strapless these days... I'm definitely adding cap sleeves to mine... as fitted as I'm sure alterations folks are able to get, I'm always paranoid about strapless dresses falling down.  My parish has the following attire requirements:

    WEDDING ATTIRE:When choosing wedding attire, your choice must reflect the dignity of Christian marriage.  Some styles are more appropriate for evening wear than they are for a sacred event held in a holy place. All wedding attire worn in the Cathedral of Saint Paul must be modest. Low necklines and high slits are not in keeping with appropriate guidelines for a religious service.Suits or tuxedos worn by groomsmen must be appropriate for a religious service as well, and not detract from it. “Costume” style tuxedos or accessories are not appropriate for a sacred event held in a holy place."
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    Jackief11Jackief11
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    edited December 2011
    Thanks yall. The only thing I was told by the wedding coordinator was use my best judgement. But I will call and ask more specifically.
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    CaylaSummerCaylaSummer
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    In Response to <a href="http://forums.theknot.com/Sites/theknot/Pages/Main.aspx/cultural-wedding-boards_catholic-weddings_veils?plckFindPostKey=Cat:Cultural Wedding BoardsForum:615Discussion:ba7c36c4-5e4f-4562-af91-787466cfe0f7Post:7fc9c6d1-7e71-4602-bb6b-ce893838ac76">Re: veils</a>:
    [QUOTE]Yep, probably really depends on the parish!  Unfortunately it's really hard to find wedding dresses that aren't strapless these days... I'm definitely adding cap sleeves to mine... as fitted as I'm sure alterations folks are able to get, I'm always paranoid about strapless dresses falling down.  My parish has the following attire requirements: W EDDING A TTIRE : When choosing wedding attire, your choice must reflect the dignity of Christian marriage.  Some styles are more appropriate for evening wear than they are for a sacred event held in a holy place. All wedding attire worn in the Cathedral of Saint Paul must be modest. Low necklines and high slits are not in keeping with appropriate guidelines for a religious service. Suits or tuxedos worn by groomsmen must be appropriate for a religious service as well, and not detract from it. “Costume” style tuxedos or accessories are not appropriate for a sacred event held in a holy place."
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    wow that is so specific. my parish basically just said that brides today are much more fashion fwd however we must be respectful of the religious ceremony so  brides and her attendants must cover their shoulders.
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