Just found this forum after posting on another forum... Please help! I am in SUCH a dilemma! My mother (and her side of the family) are very strict Catholics. It would break her heart if I wasn't married in the eyes of the church. My fiancée on the other hand is a Catholic, but does not practice and does not want to be married, in a church, but rather outside on a lake... He wouldn't mind a ceremony done by a priest, but the church won't allow ceremonies outside. This has been the cause of stress and arguing and NOTHING is settled. (Wedding is two years away). I would really love some opinions on how to resolve this. I had the idea of doing a small church ceremony with just family, those who it matters to, the week before the large wedding on the lake. Kind of like doing the church and legal ceremonies separate. I figure this could satisfy all the people that I love and care about. Any thoughts or suggestions? Thanks for the help!!