I am getting married in July 2012. I already know who I would like to ask to be my matron of honor and my bridesmaids. My best friend has no idea that I want her to be my Matron of Honor. She thinks it will be my friend that's I've known since I was a kid (who lives half way around the world). When do you think I should I ask? My mom and I are planning our weddings together (she is getting married 3 months after us and I will be her Matron of Honor) and because it's 2 weddings at the same time we were thinking of starting to look for dresses this summer. I will probably have my wedding dress by Labor Day.
I don't really know the ettiqutte with this. Thanks for your help!