I have read through some of the different posts regarding not having your Mom at your wedding, but I have a bit of a different situation. I am sorry for the depressing nature of what is below, but I am really struggling, and don't know where to begin.
My Mom was diagnosed with Ovarian Cancer 2 years ago, and continually did Chemo, and taught as a 2nd grade teacher. She was AMAZING, encouraging, and above all...loving. She dedicated her life to working with children, and did everything in her power not to miss a day of school. About 4 weeks ago my Mom was admited to ICU, and eventually passed away 2 weeks ago. My Fiancee proposed to me at 2am when the doctors told us that we needed to make final decisions about her life support. My Fiancee asked my Dad for my hand while driving to the Hospital. My whole family was in her room when he whispered in my Mom's ear, and next took me to the waiting room, and then proposed. It was one of the happiest, and saddest days of my life. I was so happy that my Mom was alive, and he was able to ask her, but she did pass 14 hours later.
Now I am here, feeling pretty much alone, without the one person who was supposed to help me with all of this. She loved my fiancee, and couldn't wait for this day to come. We had been secretly planning for the last year. She even told me while she was in the Hospital that when she couldn't sleep she was imagining our wedding.
There is a part of me that is excited to marry the most amazing man in my life (except for my Daddy), but the other part of me cannot wrap my head around putting this all together. I don't want to go to venues, the church, dress shopping...anything really, because she was supposed to help me.
Has anyone here been through something like this? I would love if anyone had any words of advise, or thoughts on how to put this all together.
Thanks!