Hi,
I was wondering if I could get some of your opinions on our plans. We haven't been to many weddings and aren't familiar with the rules and etiquette. We plan on having the official ceremony with immediate family a few weeks before the reception. The reception will be about 80 people, with cocktails, buffet and dancing.
1. We're inviting a lot of family/friends from far away, would it be a waste to have them only attend a reception?
2. Should we be surprised if people don't offer gifts for a reception-invite only?
3. We don't like attention, but would we regret not having a ceremony with reception? (the ceremony seems to "complete" the day)
4. For guests, does the ceremony really matter, or do most people look forward to the reception? (for me, the ceremony seemed kinda awkward or eventless, but it did seem to "complete" the whole day)
5. Should we have a photographer at the ceremony? On one hand it'll document the event, but we're iffy about the intimacy of the event with the photographer there as well as the distraction from the constant clicking.
What do you folks think?