I have been married to my husband for almost 2 years now and I am 8 months pregnant with our first child (due April 4th!!!). He is in the ARMY and we are stationed very far from home (few thousand miles). Well he has this old friend that he has known for a long time that he texts every so often, I know I shouldn't have but the be gaining of last August I looked through his phone and found text messages from him and her saying that he was going to leave me to go be with her and they would be happy together. (I found out that I was pregnant August 1st, and my birthday is august 6th, so I was DEVASTATED by this news) granted we had been fighting a lot but we were trying to work things out he explained tp me that is was all a misunderstanding. Thankfully we did!! We are now happier then we have ever been...or so i thought because of what happened in the text messages before I found myself looking though his phone again. I found messages from him talking behind my back to the same girl. When I question him about it he just had another excuse. At this point I don't know if I should believe him or not, it all looks really bad but he could be telling the truth and I hate to think that he would be lying to me....But I just have this horrible feeling int he back of my head that I cant get out!!
Has anyone had something like this happen before? What was the outcome?What did you do about it?