How many Brides have asked BP and did you just ask or do something sentimental? I thought about either finding or writing a personalized poem to each of my girls, I know most people on this site just say skip all of the cutesy stuff and just ask but I wanted everyone's opinion anyway.
Re: Have you asked BP yet?
Against the advice of most people on these boards I asked my bridesmaids back in November. I couldn't help it- I was so excited. I don't regret it at all but I can def see where it could get sticky some times. I just called them and asked them but I think doing something cute for them is a great idea. It doesn't have to be anything big but I think it could make asking really special.
I may ask a 4th, but I'm waiting on her. She's one of my best friends from college, but she's moving in a week. I'm afraid that since we'll both be moving on we may grow apart - so I'm waiting closer to November to see.
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I think gifts are a sweet idea
One thing about asking so early...it can be awkward. I more or less told my college best friend that she would be a bridesmaid. This was about two years ago (yes, I have been engaged FOREVER!). Since I moved back home my senior year, we really haven't been as close and I'm the only one who makes any effort in our friendship. I've since decided that I don't want her in my wedding, but I haven't actually told her that yet...I'm hoping that maybe she just won't bring it up. I think I can almost count on that since we haven't spoken in months. But should she say anything, I'm prepared to explain my reasoning. So awkward, but it's my wedding day and it's really important to me that I only have people who really care about me there. And if the girl can't even text me a "how's life?" text once in awhile, then she shouldn't be standing next to me. Just wanted to let you know of my situation so you can be cautious.
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