I know it is not nice to speak of money and what people paid for what, but!
FH and I are wondering what to pay our rabbi and when. We are not members of our Rabbi's synagogue but FH stepmom is. We have met with him twice already and are meeting with him again in 2 weeks. He said we can either pay him what we think is fair and/or make a donation to his discretionary fund. What did you do? And when did you do it? When you were meeting with him or after the wedding?
Also! Sorry!! Did you send him an invite or have a place setting for him at one of the tables?
Thanks ladies!!!!