i just got a text from one of my brother " would you hate me forever if i couldnt make it to the wedding, the reason i ask as of right now the only job options i have right now are tours" he works in a theater and he just moved back to the area recently and had a really hard time finding the job he has now so i woudnt hate him for doing it and i would never say no dont do it i want you at my wedding ... i understand he needs to work.... the ironic part is when i sent the std i kept joking around with him because he didnt come home much, so i sent him a std every month so he would know that the date and he was like " i promise i will be there stop sending me std's"
my other brother works for the airforce and they are sending him< and my sil and nephew to texas in september for a class that is 6 months long so he is not sure if he will be able to make it but i know he will be trying but he wont know if he can come till he gets out there in september, espcially since my wedding is on a friday and he might have a class on that day and not be able to fly out< if it were a saturday he would definitly be able to make it /> so now 2 of my brothers, my sil and 1 of my nephews might not be able to make my wedding and i am really upset! the people i wanted there the most were my family.

my oldest brother and his family live in New mexico and they were the ones i was worried about not being able to make it since their son is 8 so i didnt know if they would let him miss school! and as far as i know they will be coming!everyone else is/ was local! i am the youngest of 7 so i know it is difficult for everyone to be able to come but i just wish they could all make it!