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Second Guessing...

tprice11tprice11
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Now that I've made LOTS of decisions, I'm starting to second guess a lot of stuff!! Has anyone else gone thru this???  It's making me nervous!  For example, I came down to 2 wedding dresses, starting to get nervous if I made the wrong decision?!  Also in the color of the bridesmaid dresses...  Now that all of my girls have paid... I've started rethinking! Ugh, this is frustrating!  Am I alone? 
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  • FLGatorGal88FLGatorGal88 member
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    edited December 2012
    I have been there before... I had to think I chose what I have for a reason and once I make that decision I have to  stick with it.  Now that your girls have their dresses I wouldn't change anything that would have them to buy another dress. When it comes to your dress again you chose your dress for a reason DON'T LOOK AT ANYMORE!!! Just stick with your original decisions I found out through mid change I always went back to my original idea.
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  • Annas2013Annas2013 member
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    I doubted my decision on my dress originally.  So I bought a new one in July.  But I had a reason to doubt the original one, and its good I changed my mind on it because it would have looked ridiculous with the rest of the wedding.  

    As with your dress and your girls' dresses?  Stop looking at other ones.  Every once in a while when I'm home I'll go look at my dress and veil and looking at them reminds me why I fell in love with it in the first place.  Or I'll look at a picture of me in the dress.  

    I don't have the time or money to second guess my decisions at this point.  There's a reason you picked them in the first place, like FLGator said.   
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  • MamaBear904MamaBear904 member
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    I have been rethinking everything! But of course most decisions (contracts) have been made and most accessories / decorations / etc have been bought, so I'm committed! I'm going to just stick with it and have faith that it will come out great!
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  • unclaimedpantsunclaimedpants member
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    You're NOT alone! I blame Pinterest. I see new ideas and want them. Every day.

    I've questioned just about everything there is to question (is this really the location I want? Do I really want to invite so and so? Should I really spend money on this?). I just tell myself "this is the decision and it will be fine". And let's face it, whether the girls wear purple or gray, they will look amazing. Whether my guests eat food buffet style or plated, they will still be fed. 

    I just dread bigger decisions in life like what to name a child...how will I EVER make a decision about that? ;)
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  • tprice11tprice11
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    Thanks ladies!! I feel better knowing that I'm not alone... @ Carpenters, LOL about that name thing! 
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  • candygurl15candygurl15
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    Ok I thought I was going crazy.  I'm second guessing every choice I've made.  I guess it's just nerves and the desire for things to be perfect.  Just follow your gut instinct and stick with that!
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