We are having a small group of 12 people and I'm not sure if it is worthwhile to get the cabana, which has a minimum spending of $2000...I really like the privacy of the cabana but not sure if I should spend $2000 for 12 people plus $500 for the site fee for the grassy overlook plus tax it would be around $3000 I think...I already spent way more than my budget on lodging, the wedding dress and photographer...Has anyone had a small wedding reception at Merriman's without renting the cabana? How was the experience like? Did the whole group just sit in the main dining hall? Also, I was told that if I don't rent the cabana, I can't use the event menu. Instead, the guests need to order from a la carte menu. Is there any down side of ordering from a la carte? Thanks!