I was talking to my SIL last night and she was asking about how to get to the venue (invits aren't out yet but my close family now what date and where as I had to make sure they could make it) I said that you either fly or they go to a port and get a ferry across. (which is obviouse from where it is)
This was met by much objection and became her saying that I should be paying for their transport.
This became a greater conversation about the wedding and the cost of it all. I was very honest and said I didn't know and that she knows my FH parents are paying.
She got very narky at me - saying I should ask them to pay for all the guests transport (oh come on) or that we should be paying for the wedding ourselves.
I will admit to getting slightly angry at this but just repeated that his parents offered and wanted to host the weding and we accepted.
This became a greater insult on me and FH with her saying that I am only marrying him for money and that I am basically a gold-digger (I will be honest and say that I most certainly marrying up)
I lost it told her to f**k off and put the phone down
She has been with my brother for years and their daughter is one of my bridesmaids. We are not each others cup of tea and if we weren't related we wouldn't be friends at all. But we have always been nice and polite with each other and are fine. So this is completely out of character.
What the hell am I meant to do and I really want to try and keep it away from the rest of the family
edit: Not a destination wedding or a remote location just to get there from where they live they need to travel over water (can't go around) and so either need to fly or get the ferry